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25-04-2024 12:06 PM
25-04-2024 12:06 PM
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
OK here @Flowerlove22 🙂
And you ?
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25-04-2024 12:24 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
@Shaz51 I am getting there just feel like a low battery
How's your day going?
I'm just confused about sane
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25-04-2024 12:32 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
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25-04-2024 12:43 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
@ArraDreaming I feel like everything I say it's wrong
Like last night when I said I had to go
I come back to my post being removed
Because it might off been triggering for members I wasn't gone for that long it's like sane just wants to give you little time to explain yourself
I just feel like I get more pushed around here
There's lots more members on here that say more things then I do
How I was meant to know ( something serious is happening) would be upsetting yet it wasn't me that was doing anything bad I just didn't want to be rude and not reply to a member and have them thinking I am ignoring them
If this makes sense?
I am not trying to start anything I just want to understand
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25-04-2024 12:46 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
if you just leave it that’s fine too, you never have to reply to things straight away (although if you are very upset and indicating that you might do something to hurt yourself people get worried if you just drop off) so it’s always helpful if you can to just say you have to go but yiu’re ok @Flowerlove22 w
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25-04-2024 12:48 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
If I was just talking on another thread and we were talking about dogs or something really lighthearted on there and I said “gotta go an emergency is happening” it might ring less alarm bells but because this thread frequently has posts like that it makes me people EVEN MORE WORRIED
People are here to support you and others, not knock you down, sometimes things have to be removed to protect you and others
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25-04-2024 12:50 PM
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25-04-2024 12:55 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
@ArraDreaming I wasn't meaning last night was for me sorry o could off said it like I had to go I didn't think it would upset anyone I do apologise
When I was replying to someone on here last night I was on the phone to the ambulance I just said it has a quick response if I did upset anyone I am sorry it wasn't my intention
How are you today? @ArraDreaming
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25-04-2024 12:59 PM
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Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Like if you are in a moment like that you really don’t have to worry about us?
Sure, it’s helpful for us to know you’re ok, and particularly if you already been posting you are upset, but if you don’t answer us someone will check in on you, you can just focus on what you have to do, and maybe “it’s an emergency” probably incited more worry in people than not responding at all.
Because we were having an alright convo, I think from memory, if you had just dropped my thoughts would have been like oh flowerlove22 is just busy now, I hope they have a good night, maybe fallen asleep or something but the message “it’s an emergency” invites worry and fear to people…. it plants an idea if peoples heads that something is wrong @Flowerlove22
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25-04-2024 01:00 PM
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