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Yes @Maggie, I have been in the background here off and on through the day. Quiet for now but still listening.  Thanks for thinking of me.

Sherry  Heart

 

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@Former-Member  I hear that quote you shared, very very true. Thanks for dropping in.💛💗

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@Former-Member I have read and reread your post. I hope I'm not sticking my nose in where it's not wanted, if I am, I will gladly get my post removed.

You mentioned being hurt online. Have you talked it through with a moderator. Feeling safe here is very important. If something happens to cause us to feel unsafe, it needs to be dealt with. I imagine it might have been part of your sleepless night!!!!! Anyway my friend, just concerned for you. Sending a warm hug.💕💜

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Subject: Empathy

 

 

 

These eleven short stories are all very good stories and make us think twice about the daily happenings in our lives as we deal with others!!

1. Today, I interviewed my grandmother for part of a research paper I'm working on for my Psychology class. When I asked her to define success in her own words, she said;

"Success is when you look back at your life and the memories make you smile."

 

2. Today, after my 72 hour shift at the fire station, a woman ran up to me at the grocery store and gave me a hug. When I tensed up, she realized I didn't recognize her. She let go with tears of joy in her eyes and the most sincere smile and said;

"On 9-11-2001, you carried me out of the World Trade Center ."

 

3. Today, after I watched my dog get run over by a car, I sat on the side of the road holding him and crying. And just before he died;
he licked the tears off my face.

 

4. Today at 7AM, I woke up feeling ill, but decided I needed the money, so I went into work. At 3PM I got laid off. On my drive home I got a flat tire. When I went into the trunk for the spare, it was flat too.

A man in a BMW pulled over, gave me a ride, we chatted, and then he offered me a job. I start tomorrow.

 

5. Today, as my father, three brothers, and two sisters stood around my mother's hospital bed, my mother uttered her last coherent words before she died.

She simply said, "I feel so loved right now. We should have gotten together like this more often."

 

6. Today, I kissed my dad on the forehead as he passed away in a small hospital bed. About 5 seconds after he passed,

I realized it was the first time I had given him a kiss since I was a little boy.

 

7. Today, in the cutest voice, my 8-year-old daughter asked me to start recycling. I chuckled and asked, "Why?" She replied, "So you can help me save the planet." I chuckled again and asked, "And why do you want to save the planet?"

Because that's where I keep all my stuff," she said.

 

8. Today, when I witnessed a 27-year-old breast cancer patient laughing hysterically at her 2-year-old daughter's antics, I suddenly realized that,

I need to stop complaining about my life and start celebrating it again.

 

9. Today, a boy in a wheelchair saw me desperately struggling on crutches with my broken leg and offered to carry my backpack and books for me. He helped me all the way across campus to my class and as he was leaving he said,

"I hope you feel better soon."

 

10. Today, I was feeling down because the results of a biopsy came back malignant. When I got home, I opened an e-mail that said, "Thinking of you today. If you need me, I'm a phone call away."

It was from a high school friend I hadn't seen in 10 years.

 

11. Today, I was traveling in Kenya and I met a refugee from Zimbabwe .. He said he hadn't eaten anything in over 3 days and looked extremely skinny and unhealthy. Then my friend offered him the rest of the sandwich he was eating.

The first thing the man said was, "We can share it."

 

The best sermons are lived, not preached.

 

I am glad I have 'you' to send these to.

 

These are worth passing on...hope you enjoy them as much as I did!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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All the feels reading the above @Maggie.

It makes me think of the times when moments with strangers have dramatically changed my day and my outlook on things. I remember really, really struggling with a little one of mine having an enormous meltdown. I felt like the worst parent ever. Someone came up to me with "you're doing a great job - keep going" and it gave me what I needed to keep going. Times when someone has offered an extra hand or stopped to ask if I was ok etc. Seemingly little things making a big difference ☺

Very cool. Thanks for sharing.

💗💕 for anyone who wants them

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Thats beautiful @Maggie thanks for sharing 💜
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Hi @Former-Member! Sorry for my very late response, wishing you a happy New Year! How lucky that you were able to sit outside and watch those sunsets from your doorstep 🙂

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Good morning my dear sister @Maggie

And a lovely morning it was to wake up to your wonderful post. This thread for me is the most interesting and hence why I hang around (not to mention the beautiful woman behind the thread who I feel an infinity to 😘). I trust you impeccably and do feel safe with you. You truly have a good heart and what a wonderful place for me to visit to keep warm.

I absolutely loved your stories - especially the first which touched me deeply. To look back on ones life to the good memories - I believe our life does flash before us in the last part and from this day forth I want to be able to savour good memories. It does not have to be lavish trips or big goals - just those small things that stay in ones heart. A beautiful garden on a springs day, a friend's hand touching your shoulder when down, the kind gesture of a stranger, the love of my husband, daughter and friends being the main one for me. And to look back and see the smiles on others faces that I had something to do with - the latter is the greatest achievement and the most cherished memory, but so few see this until the end. And have regrets.

You made me smile today @Maggie - thank you. You so often do and I cherish our friendship.

As I do yours @Former-Member and am always thinking of you. Hope you are doing okay ❤️

@Maggie Thank you for your friendship and concern - it keeps me going to try my best to support others here. Your are my confidante here whom I talk to when you are up to it. And I value that. Otherwise I don't feel safe to express how I feel here for help when I need it always. As I am doing here in response to your question and can be open and honest with you. I know you have my best interests at heart. You have given me a place to rest. Thank you. That's special.

I addressed that issue you mentioned my friend on another thread quite openly. I am a honest person and always upfront respectfully. I think you will know the problem as it is quite obvious to some but if not it's okay as by expressing it I feel better. And I won't mention anyone out of respect for them and their well being. But it is I who need to see the light apparently hee. I am not stupid, and then another opening was found to have a go. Why? Very sad. It is sad that a gesture of good will could not be met with same and used as an opening to personally have a go. No, it should not be happening on a support site but that can be the dark side of human nature. It is actually them that I worry more than for myself as it's a tormented way of being. It will eat them up. 

I have let it go but if it doesn't continue as I get on with my life here. But if it does I will contact Sane by phone and email etc and discuss this with them. In the meantime I will keep supporting others to the best of my ability on here. But you are right, we are all human and the supporters sometimes need a safe supportive place too not bad will. Thank you for giving me a soft place to fall and for caring. Thank you for giving "me a voice". This is helping me heal. Worry not as I am good for now 😊

How is your day going?

My male friend whom has cancer and his wife just rung and has asked us to join them for lunch. Should be really lovely. So I have to rush and get ready. He starts chemo tomorrow and we are supporting them in every way we can presently. These are the things that truly matter to me....being there for others in their darkest moments. Much love to you my sister ❤️

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Thank you @Former-Member. A very happy New Year to you and your loved ones also. Hope it turns out to be a great year for you filled with everything that is good. Your post made my day also 😀❤️xx

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Thank you so much @Former-Member 🙂 I see that you're out for lunch today, so I hope you have a lovely afternoon with friends!