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13 Jun 2025 10:02 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:02 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:11 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:11 PM
I had fried rice
Parents gone it changes everything it doesn't feel like a life it felt weird saying happy birthday mum her not cuddling back. Hearing her voice and laugh @Dreamy I'm thinking about her
Sorry for not being so chatting
13 Jun 2025 10:18 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:18 PM
@Sunnyside226 I'm glad you were able to at least eat, I imagine that wouldn't have been easy today.
I understand how you are feeling, what we would do for one last cuddle with our loved ones that we have lost. Hold those precious memories that you have shared together and treasure them, remember her voice, her laugh and the way she would cuddle you. You shared a love and a bond like no other so yes it's going to hurt but try to remember those good times when things are hard ♥️.
It's ok, you don't have to be chatty. Just know I'm here if you do want to chat at all ♥️
13 Jun 2025 10:29 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:29 PM
@Dreamy holding onto memories that will always stay in our hearts
I even put gel in my hair for her day sat at the beach listening to the waves
I almost finished my colouring in did you finish yours? Do you want to chat that little fish should make me laugh
13 Jun 2025 10:36 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:36 PM
@Sunnyside226 yes we will always have those memories to treasure ♥️.
Aww i bet you looked amazing for her, sitting at the beach listening to the waves sounds relaxing.
I haven't even done any of mine today, I've just been a wreck. I'm more than happy to chat, that little fish is certainly funny.
13 Jun 2025 10:43 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:43 PM
Haha I looked so old today it was nice having my hair look cool
Im going to look freshly tomorrow night but I may also look like a wreck at the end of the night without the ripped pants haha 🤣
13 Jun 2025 10:48 PM
13 Jun 2025 10:48 PM
@Sunnyside226 I'm sure I'm alot older than you 😂.
Hey that means your doing it right when you go looking good then come out looking like a wreck 😂. Don't rip those pants or I'm gonna be laughing so hard 😂
13 Jun 2025 11:02 PM
13 Jun 2025 11:02 PM
Ohh yes it's always the start everyone looking nice in there suit / dress till the end of the night or the next day looking like something completely different 😂😂😂
I'm sure you will be laughing your head off if I ripped my pants I'll be doing the splits I may not even get up after that 😂😂.
@Dreamy just laugh it out or I'll cry 🤣 how's Casper?
13 Jun 2025 11:09 PM
13 Jun 2025 11:09 PM
@Sunnyside226 haha yes, usually unrecognisable the next day 😂.
Haha i think I'd snap if i did the splits 😂.
That's exactly what I reckon, if I don't laugh, I'll cry. Casper is laying on my shoulder with his head snuggled into my neck ♥️
Here he is with his new vest on 😊
13 Jun 2025 11:15 PM
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