CheerBear's not-Birthday

[Former-Member]

Okay @Phoenix_Rising, so where is @CheerBear?  In disguise?  Is this a fancy dress party perhaps?

[Phoenix_Rising]

Ok @CheerBear, here is my gift to you. Now I have to preface it by saying that I wanted to get something super unique that no-one else would think to give you. It took me a very long time to get it. I have spent weeks searching for a unicorn and then following it around oh-so-quietly. I guarantee that you are the only person in the whole wide world that has this super special thing. So...this is my not-birthday gift to you my awesome amazing wonderful not-friend. 

[Catcakes]

@Queenie,
Why is it an un-Birthday?

[Zoe7]

Now the guest of honour has arrived - so has the cake (and dessert lol) @CheerBear

[CheerBear]

Did you see my amazing ninja costume @Former-Member?! Zoe7 made it for me and I've been hiding in it throughout the day ☺

Hahaha this is awesome @Phoenix_Rising thank you! I have definitely never ever been given that before 😁 Thank you my awesome not-friend

[Phoenix_Rising]

Hi @Catcakes, welcome to the party. 

@CheerBear is having a not-birthday because she does not want to disclose the date of her real birthday in Forum Land.

CheerBear is my not-friend. This is because I super like her and she seems to super like me, but because I have been so very badly hurt so many times by people, I'm never doing the friend thing ever again. When I told CheerBear this many months ago, she said, "that's ok, we can be not-friends." And so not-friends we are. 

[Phoenix_Rising]

@CheerBear Good job me! See, there is a rumour that floats around that us Aspies lack social skills etc., but I just knew I couldn't go wrong getting you a unicorn turd. 

[Phoenix_Rising]

@Catcakes have you read back on the thread at all? Right now we are playing on the waterslide. Does flying down a waterslide sound like your idea of fun. Alternatively, we have a jumping castle, or you could just start eating the enormous amount of food that @Zoe7 has prepared. 

[Zoe7]

@CheerBear 

[Catcakes]

Thanks @Phoenix_Rising,
It’s nice that you have taken the time to fill in a newbie.
This is the difference between feeling in the outer and feeling included.
I understand the in friendship very well 😞