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Why Bother????

Zoe7
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Why Bother????

Some people just don't matter - may as well resign myself to that. I am past trying now!!!!

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Re: Why Bother????

@Zoe7 

Everyone does matter. It is just a bad day,or wave of emotions.Be there for yourself.This is what I keep saying to myself as well.

Re: Why Bother????

Sorry to hear where you are at 🫂  @Zoe7 

 

Sending lots of hugs and wishes that things will improve for you 💙

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Sending lots of love to you today @Zoe7 missing you

 

🩵💙🩵💚

Re: Why Bother????

❤️❤️❤️🦋 @Zoe7

 

You have always made a bigger difference here than perhaps you know …..

 

It does get very tiring when you share openly, and a lot, and seem to get limited responses in return.  I can’t speak for others, but I am having a desert experience at the moment, and having found that ex has multiple email addresses, including one very similar to the one I use for here, I am reserving how much I put out here until the legals are past a stage where it might be used against me.

 

Our connection remains one of my joys in life, and I miss you when you are not here.  I understand if it all feels too hard though, and understand too that your first priority is you.

 

Hugs n hugs …… 🌷🦋💖💕

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Missing you @Zoe7 😔

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Hi @Zoe7  I can see you’ve dropped in today. I really hope you’re ok my dear friend 🩵

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❤️🦋 @Zoe7 ….. xxx

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Hi @Zoe7 

 

I hear you - I know the feeling well - decades have passed and most of my family - my father's family and my mother have passed. Except from my cousin in Canada I really am not in touch with anyone - 

 

Unanswered mail - yes - I have given up on the few remaining - except for my daughter - and that can be touchy as well.

 

Why bother? Such a short sentence with such loaded meaning - I understand.

 

I have been battling with health issues lately - so I haven't written much - I do care though

 

Mumma Bear

Owlunar

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@Faith-and-Hope Our connection also is one of the ongoing joys in my life Hon - love you 💕

Everyone else - just not up to it anymore. The physical and mental pain is too great so sorry I am not tagging or giving anything else - just can't.

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