I'm in desperate need of help @Gazza75 .
I bought a new car last week. The salesman was lovely & talked a lot about his hobby which is my hobby - a very unusual connection since my hobby is so obscure. I've literally never met anyone who is interested in it. By the next day I realised I liked him and then it developed over the next few days into a crush. I haven't had a crush for years, especially not since being on anti-psychotics, they've erased my ability to feel romantic attraction. Until now. I decided firmly I would email him to ask him out once the long weekend was over. Now it's Monday & time to send the email. But I feel like a fat, hideous, nervous schizophrenic who should not bother a nice man with disgusting emails.
When I bought the car I was in work clothes, make-up & felt reasonably attractive (as much as one can, these days, on meds). But today I'm not working, in trackies with no make-up & feel gross, mainly because my sister was revolting to me over the weekend. (I tried to gift my old car to my nephew who's just turned 18. She accepted it then after I'd done a lot of work prepping the car, inusrance etc. she declined at the last minute & was very rude about it all which made me feel like the horrible, ugly, mental patient in the family who no-one respects).
What should I do @Gazza75 ? He obviously doens't like me or he would have asked me out. I never checked if he had a wedding band so he may be married with kids. I dunno. Would you be horrified to receive such an email from a customer? Would that be sleezy & creepy? On the other hand, even if I embarass myself I have nothing to lose as the sale is complete & I never have to have contact with the dealership again as the service centre is totally separate. What should I do?
