Hi @Zoe7 ..... 🤗💚💕

Hi @Former-Member .... 🤗💕 .... have just arrived at the local coffee shop and no sooner I stepped safely through the door, there was a huge downpour .....

I haven't gotten back to your Good Morning thread greeting yet @Former-Member ..... so good morning ..... 💐

@Zoe7 ..... I woke up this morning and had a good cry. WH was off jogging so I had space to myself and let it all out.

Then I responded to someone who shares my faith on the C-forum and my scientific brain started to kick in .....

I am in a very special situation where I don't have to pack up the household I have here in order to spend time there, at least in the short term. We have a family property in Melb that is self-sufficient, so I can literally pack a case and go .... we all can, including S2 ..... and he can come back and pack up what he wants when he is in his own place over there, which won't happen immediately anyway.

D1 and SIL will be in a position to start a family in the next year if they choose to, so that will create stronger ties with the west.

Moving interstate will break the daily interaction between WH and MIL and the changes will cause us to have to work together to achieve them.

If we are in Melb, then WH being treated for the e.d., when that comes out of the closet, will happen over there.

Once S2 has established an independ by sense of manhood, and the e.d. is found and treated, this will change the entire landscape, and I am predicting that within two years we will be back here ...... bouncing backwards and forwards in between which will become tiring too once the novelty wears off.

I would love to visit Tassie and New Zealand, and an uncle in North Qld, and my mum's best friend in Sydney ..... so those things are more likely while we are over there too .....

Silver linings starting to emerge.

@Zoe7 ..... holding you close to my heart this morning ......

Love and hugs ...... 💚💐💕🦋