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Sorry Hon - that was really the beginning of the 'slide' here for me so I can't do it. I know it is a really little thing for most people but for me it felt like one more thing taken away @Faith-and-Hope and at the time it was pretty demoralising and that feeling has certainly 'hung around'- so still not coping with it - but that is my problem to sort out.