I did speak to someone and voiced my feelings about it - but it was done and couldn't go back and undo it then @Faith-and-Hope I am glad others are getting the benefit from the thread but still feel like WE lost something - I didn't want to say anything to you at the time as I really didn't think you minded. Now I know differently I can actually say that I felt like I/we lost something that was 'ours' - that may sound selfish but it really kept me going more nights than I could count.