Oh @Faith-and-Hope it really is tense at your place - I feel for you Hon 
I am glad they both apologised - that is really positive - shows you they understand their behaviour(s) is affecting you - and they are not burying their heads in the sand. I know it doesn't 'fix' what is happening but it does provide hope for a way forward - even if that road is still a really long one!
This one is for you and your two daughter's sweetheart... 
