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@Eden1919 I gave Toby a haircut this afternoon - but didn't finish it - he was squirming like a little squirrel and I was too tired to put up with it. He really needs a bath but I don't have the energy - and I won't bath him when it is cold because his hair takes too long to dry and he gets chilly and starts to shiver (even wrapped in a blanket)