@Owlunar it is more than just reading 'stuff' - there is a 'culture' developing in parts here that I don't believe is a safe environment to be part of. This has been coming for some time now and it is my problem to deal with. As I said to F&H - the last thing I would want to do is to hurt anyone here but that also means that by not saying what I want to say I am keeping that painand hurt to myself - and I don't have anything AT ALL left to deal with any more pain. I honestly cannot see any other way. I know this forum has been my 'life-line' (literally) on many occasions but - right now - with things that have happened here - and continue to 'play out' for some members - I can't take any more. This does leave me in 'the middle of nowhere' but that is somethng I need to resolve (or not) myself.