Hi again @Zoe7

When there would be no winners then disgression is probably the better path to take - why stir yourself up esp when we have a lot of new members and this is a lot to deal with? - esp when you are so sensitive you can "see" where they are coming from

Recently I read something about empathetic people really suffering when they see or know about the suffering of other people - I don't know if I am that empathetic but there are times when I read something a new person has posted and I know I can't go there - maybe you and I are on the same wavelength here because I know there are some people I know I cannot interact with because it would bring me down

And I am sure it is not the intention of the people who have set the forums up that people get into more than they can handle when this sort of thing happens - and I understand what you seem to be saying even if I don't know - and can't know - how you are really feeling

But I care

Dec