Dear Mumma Bear @Owlunar 

Thank you for your Motherly advice and all the thought that went into your response to me. It was a very good response. I am not going to hunt down my Mother. It truly is her loss. She has never known or understood me and she did not get to know her grandchildren. I was a good kid and did not give her any grief. My only fault was that I got diagnosed with Bipolar. I guess every Mother does their best with the tools they themselves have been given but her best was not very good. So sorry to hear of your troubled relationship with your own Mother. I do hope that I have not triggered troubling thoughts for you. You are a great Mother and you should be proud of your efforts where your son and daughter are concerned. Thank you for standing in as a Mother figure here for so many of us on the forums. Much love and kind wishes,

Meggle