@Appleblossom 

Thanks Apple  - yes - I truly believe that the bonds can easily be stretched too far if we are  not honest about what hurts.

I know there are limits  - strange though - if we mention our hurt somehow it can be taken as the criticism we have tried so hard to avoid.

Mother and daughter relationships are complex - i do know my daughter better than she realises  - oh yes!

It's really great to have your input 

Owlunar