@Decadian Thankyou for the privilege of sharing this with me. You really are making a huge difference and I understand as far as I can without being in yours or your sons shoes.
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@utopia beautifully put, and spot on, as always.
To both of you - I am so grateful that you feel comfortable enough to share parts of yourselves with me. I am also so grateful that you are supporting me at the moment. I don't think you actually know what a difference it really is making. 
