@Sunnyside226 i'm so sorry you feel this way - just to be clear, when i was explaining it, we weren't saying you were in trouble!! you didn't do anything wrong and you are not in trouble at all. and i can assure you that none of the mods hate you. when we explain things, we mean it in a friendly way - we're not trying to upset you and we're not picking on you.

usually we send this sort of explanation through email to other members but we sent it to you on the forums since you prefer forums over email. so just know that other members do get sent emails about this sort of stuff too but you just can't see it. 

you can tag whoever you feel comfy tagging. and if you'd like a break that's okay too. we're here to chat whenever you're ready.