Yes, I agree @Patches59 

I am not sure if it is just solved by throwing money in the form of counselling…at grieving kids….

it needs broader social and relevant connections and working through 

There are levels of grief that are more tolerable through both the passage of time and in finding ways to make sense of the loss, manage one’s own emotions, and celebrate the life of a loved one, in a way that allows full attention, then fully living ones life without them.

Some of my brothers life was working out dads death and we both replaced dads role in little ways by stretching ourselves, learning and working.

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I just want to curl up under a rock ….