haha @Faith-and-Hope my sister has one of those too - her little boy loves being outside but is only allowed 'supervised visits' as he runs pretty quickly. Her property has bush surrounding it and especially in summer she is afraid of snakes so he is only allowed short visits outside. I hope Jay settles in and finds inside to be a safe place. I am so very lucky with Clover - she is not a jumper or climber so I have no concerns about her 'escaping' or going wandering ...and she is never far from Toby or I so doubly lucky.
It is hard to engage with anything when there is so much going on Hon. It is extra hard when you cannot do anything about it all either and just have to sit and wait - that is draining and stressful ๐ A chilled day with your girl is lovely though - it may not seem much but that time together doing nothing is often the ones we remember the most because you are together and present with each other. ๐
Love ya back Hon ๐