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Maybe it is time she starts looking for somewhere else then Hon - you have been dealing with all this from her for so long and if can't treat you with respect then so be it ...time for her to move @Snowie I do know it is not as easy as that but your happiness is important and whilst she continues to be so nasty to you it is hard to find that happiness.