That does make it hard Hon. You would be walking on eggshells constantly having that kind of negativity and obligation around you. It is not supposed to be this way - you have a family of your own and deserve to live your life but having her there is a constant stress ...a no-win situation @Snowie 😔 I absolutely feel so much for you - I could not live with my mother and she does not treat me with the same nastiness that yours does so hugs and hugs and hugs coming your way 💙💙💙💙💙