Thanks @Former-Member ..... 🤗💕

I'm okay. Just visiting with my dad at the moment and he doesn't have wifi, so being a bit careful with my data, but thinking of y'all .....

This are coming to surface by degrees, as S2 is reviewed by a psychiatrist, and he is looking at personality types .... think this is going to feed back to WH, but whether that brings the whole e.d. to light, or just how severe his control issues are and messed up dynamics with mil now under the progression of it all, dunno ......

Have to wait and see, and the best way to not stress out about it is to stay as tuned out and distracted as possible at the moment. It will be what it will be in due course and is just going to send me spiralling with anxiety if I try to second-guess what is going to happen and upset myself with it all.

What I am looking at is how I can try to phrase things to explain enough about what is going on to give the pdoc as many gigantic clues as I can ...... cos it's likely I will be sitting in the same room as WH while answering questions, so I am going to have to use terminology that doesn't trigger his temper but still get some sort of message across.

Trying to rephrase "extremely conteolling" and "excessive rewarding" as parenting terms, and how to describe "guiding and nurturing" style parenting as the opposite form.

Using the time here to mull that over, cos the apt is this week, and I've got to give it my best shot.