Hi @Owlunar

Thank you for your empathy. I really appreciate it .....

It seems that the issues with the kids have a lot to do with inherited personality traits and how our parenting and hone environment, including interactions with extended family and schooling have influenced them ..... meaning that it's not entirely clear and simple .....

I have no doubt that the kids have inherited strengths and weaknesses from both of us, however I also have no doubt that exposure to WH's regimen for the last few years is impacting on their inherent personalities and mindset.

We are on a learning journey here, like it or not, but resolution in the form of diagnosis of WH's e.d., along with the underlying issues driving it, is still my primary focus, as it is so wearing and destructive .... living with it could only ever be on borrowed time.

I have no idea how this is going to pan out, so I can't focus on that. I can only focus on what I can do ..... and that is to mentally consider what sort of questions might be asked, and prepare my ideas and thoughts to cater as best I can. It's really up to the dr after that.