Your situation is so different to mine @Zoe7, which is probably why there are no triggers, or very few ...... I don't need a "break" from you at all.

If I am ever absent from here for any length of time it is circumstantial ..... something irl has taken my time or attention, or both. I will always try to give you a heads-up if it's something like travel, or a major event like a wedding to go to.

If ever I have to close down my identity here, I will return with another one and let you and others know it's me. You will recognise me anyway because my life story won't have changed ..... just name and avatar ..... and by our online relationships we know each other.

💚💐💕