I am so happy (and relieved) that you have agreed @CheerBear. It won't be too scary  I'll be around with you but this day should be just for you - one you can look back on when times are a little tough and enjoy all over again  I'll get onto the invitations, and party decorations. Venue and lights are done - now do you want a dress-up theme (eg. everyone dressed as care bears lol) or let everyone choose their own costumes - entirely up to you - I can work with what you decide