Hey GP - that is so unfair from your mother ...and your neighbour @greenpea Sometimes people just do not think about the hurt they cause others with what they say. Try to ignore your neighbour - they probablly have their own issues going on to be like that with you Hon
As for your mother and daughter - are you able to talk to her about what your daughter is dealing with and how inappropriate it would be to say any of that to her or will she brush off what you have to say?
...selfishly I am pleased to see you back... missed my little pea buddy 