@greenpeaI am super sorry that you are going through this. Some people are just so ignorant.

Firstly tell the nieghbour to go shove it. How dare someone say that to you. Unfortunately some people here are so insensitive. I would tell you to ignore them, but I know how hurtful words can be sometimes.

Your mother seems to be very judgemental and have no clue what you and your daughter go through daily. She is the one missing out on her own grand daughter. My mother is extremely judgemental of myself, my children, the way I raise them and will take every opportunitiy to tell me so. I know how hard this can be to deal with. If she does not want a relationship with your daughter than unfortunately I don't think anything you say to her will change her mind. Sounds like she has her opinion and nothing will change that.

Once again I am sorry that you have to go through this, but glad you still have the forum here for support.

I don't like seeing my little green pea or her children hurting. Just please remember that you are an amazing mum and your children are lucky to have you.