Hello @Bunniekins

Such a terrifying time for you....your son also would have been terrified even though coming across as aggressive...

I have experienced traumatic situations in past with family member and had to hide with my younger son locking myself in bathroom or car..

it truly is terrifying..

not wanting to intrude as have been sticking to a couple of threads due to my own circumstances...

just a suggestion..

you can ring reception of son's psychiatrist and stress he needs urgent appointment...he needs medication checking due to change in his health..(no need to go into actual details with receptionist).stress that it is very urgent..

thinking of you...so hard for you both..so relieved to read that you had such incredible support...

ps   absolutely adore your new outfit courtesy of @Zoe7