Any help you and your son can get is necessary right now for both of you @Bunniekins. You know what happened the other night is likely to happen again without support to helkp him manage his anger better - and the last thing we want is for that anger to be turned on you (or anyone else including himself). Too bad that if they were thinking that money could be spent elsewhere - it has been set aside for a reason and you need to utilise it.

I am feeling a little better but not great today. The antibiotics already seem to be working - as much for my chest as my finger. My finger is still quite swollen and is turning a nice shade of purple but isn't throbbing like it was. I can breathe better today just feel miserable now. Toby is snuggled up next to me having puppy dreams lol