Oh my that's the cutest creature ever @Former-Member. Perfect pocket size thank you. I will hold it with me today.

Totally ok to have this conversation here too. Our experiences are very different, though there are some unfortunate similarities.

I just got a super lovely call from my counsellor, who has also been in my corner for a while. Another way of looking at this appointment is as a means of filling in the blanks that exist between who someone said I was or thought I was last time this went down, and who I am now and why I am here. There's a striking difference and if nothing else, this is a chance to in a way kind of rewrite some history or at least add something very substantial that was missing before.