@tyme she hasn't moved yet. We need to get approval to move to the nursing home. We have an appointment next Thursday with Aged Care to get the approval. Once we have that (which can take awhile), we can then enquire to see if the nursing home has vacancies. 

Then she is going to go in for a 2 week respite to see if she likes it before moving there.

Once again, got in trouble for it taking so long even though it is out of my control.

If she doesn't go there then I don't know what will happen. I guess it will all be back onto me. My brother is useless. I'm scared of that happening and what I'd do to myself.

There is a lot going on that I'm not dealing with. My own MH is going downhill. My flashbacks have increased, my sleep is crap. I'm even having to change my MH appts just to deal with her appt's.

I just don't want to play this game any longer.