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Someone like a community mental health worker @Former-Member. Someone who will come to you, or meet up with you somewhere you feel ok in. I've recieved outreach support of different kinds over the years and find it often is the most helpful sort of support for me (depending on the worker). It might be worth having a bit of a think about maybe. I'm happy to share my experiences with you and answer questions if you have any (and I can), as I'm pretty sure lots of people here would be too. No pressure to even think about it though, just planting a seed, which you can throw away if you'd like 🙂