I didn't see anything wrong with that word @Phoenix_Rising - actually think what you replaced it with is more triggering! - suppose it is a case of what triggers one person may be completely oblivious to another!

I'm with @CheerBear - what the.......? How exactly can that happen? I don't know little turtle - doesn't it just seem like the whole rest of the world is in on some joke that we aren't party to sometimes  

Sitting here with you (not touching) but close enough so you know I am around