I haven't been here for a few hours as I too have been working through my next post for the adventure @Phoenix_Rising so I have missed what has happened. I can understand the fear of not wanting to say anything "wrong" and can see how it is tricky to work through this stuff here. I also understand how it would be very hard to make sense of how something may seem both "wrong" but not "wrong". I imagine this being a case of if something breaches guidelines then it breaches guidelines, and if it doesn't it doesn't, in your mind (and in many other's too). This seems very grey and I get grey is tricky. 

I am glad you have @Faith-and-Hope offering to work things through with you and I will walk alongside you as you do. Or I can bunker down in the cave as well until it can be worked through somewhere/sometime else. 

Right here but not too