You have a place and a purpose here @Phoenix_Rising ..... and most of us have mini-connections to life and purpose.  This ,,,,, being on the forums ..... is one of yours, right ?

You also have a cat, so there is another one.

Do you garden ?

Connecting with TTT is another ....

Even sitting in the hairdressers chair is connectivity.

There are other people on the forums with no (current) job and no real connection with friends and family, so as with you, there are fewer points of connection ..... but they are there nonetheless.  They may also be less conventional, or entirely unconventional.

Some people study the stars.

Someone here likes taking photos of lightening .....

Its all connectivity - with people, animals, nature, the universe, and also our own ideas, hobbies and interests.

You have a wicked sense of humour @Phoenix_Rising ..... and that is a joyful form of connection with others.

Gotta love Kermie ...... 🐸