@Former-Member I am heading off to bed now but super quickly...

I totally hear you about the shakiness. It is superly duperly tricky, but I know a lot of work is going on behind the scenes to de-shake the shakiness. 

I'm super glad you found the stuff on therapeutic parenting helpful. Healing IS possible bookish...it's just super hard finding the right helping person. I know the therapeutic parenting thing is what TTT is doing with me and I know that it can work. 

I know you are familiar with schema therapy. It involves "limited reparenting." Are you familiar with that aspect of it? 

Good night bookish. Thank you for validating the not-ok-ness of my current adventure. I so badly wish I could share TTT with you.