I wonder that sometimes too @Maggie, especially when I'm in the middle of it being hard. When I think of fine I think of moments like sitting under the tree and hearing birds, or watching littles play and not thinking about anything else, or coffee in the quiet still of the morning with a sunrise.

I hear you though, and believe things are really hard for you often, and fine is not so much existent. Lots of hugs for you.

My day has had a surprising amount of smiles thanks, mostly from foruming rather than working on the mess. If only I could actually live in a nest 😉 Still I am smiling though (then freaking out a bit but then smiling again). Rollercoaster.

Really probably should keep on keeping on with this. I'll see if I can "encourage" some helpers with the promise of icy poles maybe. And maybe reward myself with forum visits for little jobs done.

Sending you a virtual big shady tree and cool drink 💗