Hi,
I’m new to the forum. I don’t have any answers for you, but I understand what your going through. My daughter suffers from bpd and addiction issues. I’m doing my best to look after her and care for my 3 year grand daughter. The girls live with me and navigating the mood swings and rages while trying to shield the little one is sooooo exhausting . I walk around on egg shells all day. On the upside I do catch glimpses of the warm , loving beautiful young woman that my daughter was before she became so unwell ( it makes me sad sometimes because I miss her so much) . Hopefully with the right treatment her life (and ours) will improve. Sorry I can’t help but I do understand how hard things must be for you.