hello@Mol @tyme 

I'm not going to write " your dillema is so much worse than mine 

but I feel I can reach out and .....through the computer ...  Just hold your hand. 

 Just throwing out some ideas here-

Will a warm shower with you standing by the door help her just for the next hour ?

A cup of tea ?

A warm bath with you sitting by

A small walk just to get out of the home ?

I remember when my little son was going through hospitalizations he loved hearing the story of his birth and how amazed and thrilled it was when his little body appeared and how much I loved him.

Would this be something that would help her ?

Please stay in touch x