@Determined there are so many times when i think i am at the point of breaking.
Theres been concern of a burnout.
I love my mr for the person he is and not the person that mi makes him.
I think sometimes everything gets so overwhelming and we are soo worn thin we forget the other person thats in there.
I have my days where im cluthing on a thin thread and im really not sure if i can do it. But somehow i manage and i wake up the next day ready to go again.
When we split i thought it was the end of my world.
I was absolutely devestated.
Now i see it as an opportunity to love and understand one another better.
No body understands how i have stayed his friend through this.
But if we cant handle friends we definitely dont have a chance at seeing if we can love each other intimately again.
Go back read your books and see if you can try reapply any of it.
Remember chapman has been in situations where one couple tries and the other doesnt.
They have turned out okay in the end.
Sometimes with our partners mi i think they dont have the strength to try like we as carers do. So as long as we know deep down we do and have done everything we could. We also sometimes have to put in that little extra for them.
