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19 Jan 2018 10:31 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:31 AM
@CheerBear @Catcakes I emailed TTT but she doesn't have any appointments available. I'm not due to see her until next Thursday. WHAT DO I DO???? How does anyone live with the objective reality that they do not matter? They made a choice. They chose the other. No amount of reframing in the world can change that!!!!! I do not matter. Anybody can do anything to me and their wellbeing will still come first.
19 Jan 2018 10:32 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:32 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:37 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:37 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:37 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:37 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:38 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:38 AM
I really hear that you feel you do not matter @Phoenix_Rising.
I want you to try and hear me, @CheerBear and @Catcakes when we say you do matter. We all matter. This is a massive wave right now @Phoenix_Rising but it will pass in time. Is there somewhere you feel you would be best supported in the ocean right now? How do you feel about riding some inflatables @CheerBear with @Phoenix_Rising in your pocket? Just a suggestion 🙂
19 Jan 2018 10:39 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:39 AM
@CheerBear Why can you understand so well without knowing and "the professionals" cannot understand despite knowing. I need help CheerBear and there is no one. I so very very very badly wish you were on the end of the telephone.
19 Jan 2018 10:40 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:40 AM
You matter to me, @Phoenix_Rising, but I really do hear you.
19 Jan 2018 10:41 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:41 AM
@Former-Member I know I matter a bit, BUT THE OTHER MATTERS MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There was a choice. One choice would be better for my wellbeing and the other choice would be better for the one who caused harm to me, and THEY CHOSE TO SUPPORT THE ONE WHO CAUSED HARM. No amount of reframing in the world can change that!!!!!!!
I do not matter,
I'm only one person,
Destroy me completely,
Then throw me away.
19 Jan 2018 10:46 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:46 AM
@Phoenix_Rising I have nothing for you but to tell you I am hearing you
19 Jan 2018 10:48 AM
19 Jan 2018 10:48 AM
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