Oh well done @Former-Member .... that’s the best sort of surprise, and so personal cos you’re using your own skills !! 

Cant think of a better way to give back to people who have helped to support you .....

Yeah, still feeling tired @Zoe7 @Former-Member ..... this decision has been a long time coming.  I have felt unsupported for so long, and still do by most of the professionals who have been gathering around us. Making this decision has restored my sense of autonomy, and effectively taken me out of the equation.  I will still be here, but I have changed the dynamic that they have (incorrectly in my opinion) presumed to be the central / conflicting one.