I currently have a shoulder injury and am in chronic pain. I have to rely on my partner for help with things and I hate that I have to rely on him. I hate that he has to care for me. I am so frustrated that I am being so horrible towards him and he in turn is being horrible back to me. We are constantly in each other space and rarely spend time apart. I've become rather codependent on him and this in turn has taken away his independence. I love him so much and want to be with his but I am struggling to be able to let the little things go